Posts Tagged ‘ Relationships ’

Monogamy is…well, was.

Monogamy is overly consumed, boring and over simplified. When you hear that from someone who’s been a serial monogamist, you should pay some attention. I say that because it’s so heteronormative; that is totally forced into relationships since it’s the acceptable hetrosexual norm. I don’t want monogamy to be a default that is stamped into [ READ MORE ]

The woman who lost her element and found it again

  • August 22nd, 2010
  • Posted in Love

She lost her romantic self, for months she did Her search of steady-love beyond the infatuation which comes at first was never found. She didn’t trust her heart. She didn’t trust she had anything to offer anymore. For her all was more of the same, a predictable cycle Few flings came and all were gone [ READ MORE ]

Confronting the beast

In my case, the beast is an ex in front of my eyes. One of several. Yet, an ex. Why do lesbians want to “normalize” their relationsips with all of their exes so much? I find it to be a nightmare. I find it to be an action that negates an experience that better be [ READ MORE ]

Lesbians and pets

Living in any gay neighborhood in a big city in North America you can’t but notice the love for pets. I used to call one “dog town”. The usual being that gay men love dogs and lesbians love cats. Though recently more lesbians have moved away from cats into dogs and other “creatures”. I have [ READ MORE ]

The heart wrecker

Since I’ve been doing a lot of “soul-searching” lately on top of discussions about exes with friends, I’ve come to realize a phenomena. Bear with me as I explain… The heartbroken we’ve been and the heartbreakers we were is a usual thing in a gay’s woman life whom I observed to have had at least [ READ MORE ]

Where is your heart?

I was watching the latest episode of Grey’s Anatomy today and there was a discussion between Grey and little Grey about sex and feelings. Older Grey accusing little Grey that the latter doesn’t know how it is to have sex with someone without developing feelings for them and she used this term to explain her [ READ MORE ]

Starting new

So you got your heart broken, felt the sadness, you cried, you reflected, calmed down, took your space and decided to moved on. Knowing that you have done the above, over and over again. Some were faster than others some were too slow, be it 1 month, 6 months of 1 year or more. So, you [ READ MORE ]

Promises

Don’t ask me how, but I stumbled upon an email I got few years ago from an ex of mine. It was a love letter. I would share it here, but then I thought it was written to me and no matter where my ex is now; I’m sure not only has she forgotten about [ READ MORE ]

Gharam all the time

A friend of ours had this reply when we were all asked what was our dream in life the other day: I want to continuously be in a state of gharam [being in love] I don’t care to how many times, or with whatever number of people I want to be in love always. I conceded. Its [ READ MORE ]

Random Musings

When you miss someone you are no longer with romantically, what does it mean? You miss the feeling of being happy and in love. You miss the feeling of thinking you have found your one. You miss the feeling of having someone special for you. You miss the feeling of not being alone. You miss the [ READ MORE ]

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