Posts Tagged ‘ Lesbianism ’

Being out is a sate of mind not a statement

I am out. The above being a state of mind changes this statement; when the exception becomes being NOT out. The bubble you live in might get tighter. Yet, who cares. Create that bubble and then expand it in time. In Amman,  it works. As everywhere else. You need to find that place or places [ READ MORE ]

Exes – Everyone else = Incidents

So some qualify as exes, what about the rest of them? I would like to call these “Incidents”, so now we go into what qualifies an incident? 1. Crushes: You had a big crush on her yet it didn’t go anywhere. Either because you didn’t “feel” anything back, or you hinted in your super-mysterious-moves without response, [ READ MORE ]

endless rings of shame

There is shame, so there will be pride. Others have pride because they once had shame. I can say with confidence that in the larger Arabia, we have shame and lots of it associated with our sexual orientation. (funny i know!) The first ring a lot of us are getting out of more and more [ READ MORE ]

On relationships

So this post is more about discussing relationships and they types people prefer to get into. 1. On monogamy, do you feel you can live with a woman for the rest of your life without sleeping with other women? 2. Are you a serial monogamist? its all about not declaring that you want to find [ READ MORE ]

Tips on being a lesbian in amman

It’s been done. Relax. You are not alone. Sorry to break it to you that you are not that special, and for that you will thank me soon enough! - There are lesbians in Amman, we exist, from all ages. We play, we work, we talk, we love, we dream, we drink, we sleep, we [ READ MORE ]

A question for butches out there…

An honest question to anyone who identifies as a “butch” lesbian. What is it about being macho, you know carrying the bags, opening the door, showing your muscles, the bike…etc? Is every butch is a transgendered person in the closet? or is it something totally different. Do butches love their body and curves? Because I [ READ MORE ]

How to spot a self hating lesbian…

1. She adores her straight “gay friendly” friends so much, it makes you sick sometimes. 2. She’s only interested in hanging out with you (her lesbian friends) at someone’s home, not out in the bar on a Thursday night. 3. She immediately tells you “don’t tell her about me” when you are all excited telling [ READ MORE ]

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