Archive for March, 2010

Standup Comedian: Wanda Sykes

She’s my favorite comedian right after Ellen DeGeneres of course! It’s quite interesting to have many lesbian standup comedians out there. Not to mention filmmakers and artists. Being gay in general, being different, sensing a harsh world brings a lot of the times some great talents in the arts. Anyway, check out these videos for [ READ MORE ]

Trashing oneself

There is some sense of trashiness that comes to me with some of the casual encounters I do every now and then. I feel so bad afterwards that for the life of me, I don’t understand why I do it again! Why? Well, it’s not the “casual” nature of the encounter that makes me feel [ READ MORE ]

On dancing

Dancing is a metaphor for how life should be lived. Adapting to changing rhythms, Joyful little or big steps, Experimenting, Experiencing joy, love when moving from point A to B. Hard work that pays off instantly. Approaching people without reservations, Easily, picking and choosing what/who works, Being a fool and not being afraid if someone [ READ MORE ]

Lesbians and pets

Living in any gay neighborhood in a big city in North America you can’t but notice the love for pets. I used to call one “dog town”. The usual being that gay men love dogs and lesbians love cats. Though recently more lesbians have moved away from cats into dogs and other “creatures”. I have [ READ MORE ]

The heart wrecker

Since I’ve been doing a lot of “soul-searching” lately on top of discussions about exes with friends, I’ve come to realize a phenomena. Bear with me as I explain… The heartbroken we’ve been and the heartbreakers we were is a usual thing in a gay’s woman life whom I observed to have had at least [ READ MORE ]

Where is your heart?

I was watching the latest episode of Grey’s Anatomy today and there was a discussion between Grey and little Grey about sex and feelings. Older Grey accusing little Grey that the latter doesn’t know how it is to have sex with someone without developing feelings for them and she used this term to explain her [ READ MORE ]

Beautiful spanish song

Juan Gabriel – Se me olvido otra vez (I Forgot Again) First heard it through the tragic ending of the season 8 of the Spanish show “Los Hombres de Paco” a great drama with two lead lesbian characters Pepa & Silvia, you can watch their story line on this YouTube Playlist. I looked the song [ READ MORE ]

Starting new

So you got your heart broken, felt the sadness, you cried, you reflected, calmed down, took your space and decided to moved on. Knowing that you have done the above, over and over again. Some were faster than others some were too slow, be it 1 month, 6 months of 1 year or more. So, you [ READ MORE ]

Songs and Lovers

Yesterday while I was going through the songs I have on my laptop  -so to create a new playlist I would play in my car when I drive- I came to notice some songs that instantly reminded me of certain lovers. I obviously like these songs, they were either songs me and an ex of [ READ MORE ]

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